Sex bis and community bis

Sex bis and community bis

So there’s this e-book and a whole website called All Women are Bisexual.
http://www.allwomenarebisexual.com/babes-making-out/

I’m not sure what to make of it really. I mean, the basic premise I think is bollocks – many people are quite aware of who they are attracted to and what their behaviour is and it is to just one gender for a lot or all of their life.

I’m not much interested in getting into a debate with them which they could just use as public relations.

However, a lot of men are attracted to a particular fantasy of bi women and many women are bisexual and some start to become aware of that later in life. Some people who are bi or a type of bi friendly are likely to be attracted to this site I would guess.

Is there a way of connecting that group of bisexuals and other bits of bisexual community?

There are also a whole lot of men connected in some way to http://www.bimen.org/ which consists of lists, pictures and other stuff – a lot, but not exclusively, around bi men who are looking for sex with other men without their wives or girlfriends knowing. I’m on a few of the lists and as well as many personal ads for cocksucking and lots of announcements from the one guy who runs all of this, I’ve met some lovely guys for chats. There have been conventions in US co-organised with community minded activists which are advertised carefully as being about men’s self-development with not a word in public about bisexuality.

Again, I wonder at there being a crowd of bi men in contact for sex and how different that world looks from mine. Again I wonder what commonalities we have and what connections might work well.

When I was editing BCN we had writing about there being a lot of bi ads in a free advertising paper.

There are other groups with a lot of crossover with bisexuality too that I know of (Goths anyone?) and plenty I probably don’t. Some groups contain many people I suspect – cruising, saunas etc. without necessarily a lot of talk.

I wonder what multiple groups of bisexuals there are out there and how they connect and whether some people would enjoy being in more than one style of group but unaware of the others and whether we could talk to each other more.

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