{"id":206,"date":"2011-10-10T08:23:00","date_gmt":"2011-10-10T08:23:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bimedia.org\/blogs\/?guid=7ef0052e204289313b9b5e35da021179"},"modified":"2011-10-10T08:23:00","modified_gmt":"2011-10-10T08:23:00","slug":"we-need-a-bisexual-haircut-bi-activist-amy-andres-bitter-sweet-take-on-walking-down-the-street-with-her-spouse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bimedia.org\/blogs\/2011\/10\/we-need-a-bisexual-haircut-bi-activist-amy-andres-bitter-sweet-take-on-walking-down-the-street-with-her-spouse\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2018We need a bisexual haircut!\u2019 : bi activist Amy Andr\u00e9\u2019s bitter-sweet take on walking down the street with her spouse"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/lh4.ggpht.com\/-IKsh4YfCW-0\/TpMQ_bb3C3I\/AAAAAAAAAPs\/rMdvj6tIau8\/s1600-h\/photo-by-Marlo-Gayle%25255B3%25255D.jpg\"><font size=\"2\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"background-image: none; padding-bottom: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; float: right; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; padding-top: 0px\" title=\"photo-by-Marlo-Gayle\" border=\"0\" alt=\"photo-by-Marlo-Gayle\" align=\"right\" src=\"http:\/\/lh5.ggpht.com\/-ViLdh0PXDtU\/TpMQ_0jOwQI\/AAAAAAAAAPw\/U5DCwAHagAA\/photo-by-Marlo-Gayle_thumb%25255B1%25255D.jpg?imgmax=800\" width=\"240\" height=\"180\"><\/font><\/a><font size=\"2\">Amy Andr<\/font><font size=\"2\">\u00e9 <\/font><font size=\"2\">is a bi woman married to a lesbian. When walking together one day, near their home in San Francisco, a man in a pick-up truck shouted at them as he drove by: \u201cLesbians!\u201d<\/font><\/p>\n<p><font size=\"2\">\u201cI\u2019ll take it!\u201d was <font size=\"2\">Andr<\/font><font size=\"2\">\u00e9\u2018s <\/font>reply. \u201cBecause even though I&#8217;m not a lesbian, it&#8217;s certainly no insult to be mistaken for one, especially if the mistake is based on my awesome hair style!\u201d<\/font><\/p>\n<p><font size=\"2\"><font size=\"2\">Andr<\/font><font size=\"2\">\u00e9 <\/font>is the co-author of Bisexual Health, published by the National Gay &amp; Lesbian Task Force, and is an in-demand speaker on bisexual and overall LGBT issues. She holds a masters in Sexuality Studies and an MBA from UC Berkeley. <\/font><\/p>\n<p><font size=\"2\">And she has short hair. Was that the marker then for this truck driver? Short hair marks a woman as lesbian? <font size=\"2\">Andr<\/font><font size=\"2\">\u00e9 <\/font>and her spouse, Dr. Kami Chisholm, ponder this, both seriously and humorously, as they walk on: \u201cConsidering the fact that studies show that twice as many women identify as bisexual than identify as lesbian (yes, bi women outnumber lesbians two to one), the odds were just higher anyway that, if he thinks I&#8217;m not straight, then I&#8217;m probably bi. So, what could it be that made him assume we were <em>both<\/em> lesbians?\u201d<\/font><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<h4><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bilerico.com\/2011\/09\/what_does_a_bisexual_look_like.php\" ><em>What Does a Bisexual Look Like?<\/em> by Amy Andre<\/a>, filed at the Bilerico Project, 27.Sep.11. <\/h4>\n<h4>&nbsp;<\/h4>\n<h4><font size=\"2\">Amy Andr<\/font><font size=\"2\">\u00e9 <\/font><font size=\"2\">is also the author of <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.lgbtpov.com\/2011\/05\/amy-andre-married-like-as-in-_married_-married\/\" ><em>Married, Like as in Married Married<\/em><\/a> for LGBT | POV.<\/strong><\/font><\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p align=\"right\">Photo credit: Marlo Gayle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/lh4.ggpht.com\/-IKsh4YfCW-0\/TpMQ_bb3C3I\/AAAAAAAAAPs\/rMdvj6tIau8\/s1600-h\/photo-by-Marlo-Gayle%25255B3%25255D.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" title=\"photo-by-Marlo-Gayle\" border=\"0\" alt=\"photo-by-Marlo-Gayle\" align=\"right\" src=\"http:\/\/lh5.ggpht.com\/-ViLdh0PXDtU\/TpMQ_0jOwQI\/AAAAAAAAAPw\/U5DCwAHagAA\/photo-by-Marlo-Gayle_thumb%25255B1%25255D.jpg?imgmax=800\" width=\"240\" height=\"180\"><\/a>Amy Andr&eacute; is a bi woman married to a lesbian. When walking together one day, near their home in San Francisco, a man in a pick-up truck shouted at them as he drove by: &ldquo;Lesbians!&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;I&rsquo;ll take it!&rdquo; was Andr&eacute;&lsquo;s reply. &ldquo;Because even though I&#8217;m not a lesbian, it&#8217;s certainly no insult to be mistaken for one, especially if the mistake is based on my awesome hair style!&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>Andr&eacute; is the co-author of Bisexual Health, published by the National Gay &amp; Lesbian Task Force, and is an in-demand speaker on bisexual and overall LGBT issues. She holds a masters in Sexuality Studies and an MBA from UC Berkeley. <\/p>\n<p>And she has short hair. Was that the marker then for this truck driver? Short hair marks a woman as lesbian? Andr&eacute; and her spouse, Dr. Kami Chisholm, ponder this, both seriously and humorously, as they walk on: &ldquo;Considering the fact that studies show that twice as many women identify as bisexual than identify as lesbian (yes, bi women outnumber lesbians two to one), the odds were just higher anyway that, if he thinks I&#8217;m not straight, then I&#8217;m probably bi. So, what could it be that made him assume we were <em>both<\/em> lesbians?&rdquo;<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<h4>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.bilerico.com\/2011\/09\/what_does_a_bisexual_look_like.php\" target=\"_blank\"><em>What Does a Bisexual Look Like?<\/em> by Amy Andre<\/a>, filed at the Bilerico Project, 27.Sep.11. <\/h4>\n<h4>&nbsp;<\/h4>\n<h4>Amy Andr&eacute; is also the author of <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.lgbtpov.com\/2011\/05\/amy-andre-married-like-as-in-_married_-married\/\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Married, Like as in Married Married<\/em><\/a> for LGBT | POV.<\/strong><br \/>\n<\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p align=\"right\">Photo credit: Marlo Gayle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":1211,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-206","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bimedia.org\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/206","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bimedia.org\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bimedia.org\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bimedia.org\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/14"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bimedia.org\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=206"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bimedia.org\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/206\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bimedia.org\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1211"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bimedia.org\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=206"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bimedia.org\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=206"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bimedia.org\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=206"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}