{"id":2322,"date":"2014-12-16T13:00:00","date_gmt":"2014-12-16T13:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bimedia.org\/blogs\/?guid=54ad69a4476ab5710c2d9102cc226a3d"},"modified":"2014-12-16T16:15:02","modified_gmt":"2014-12-16T16:15:02","slug":"bi-and-over-50-5-chip","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bimedia.org\/blogs\/2014\/12\/bi-and-over-50-5-chip\/","title":{"rendered":"Bi and over 50 5: Chip"},"content":{"rendered":"
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I’m so pleased with the response to this series of email interviews with bi people over 50. Thanks again to everyone who has shown interest in this project.<\/span><\/div>\n

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Each of the “interviews” is written by the individual concerned, with the questions in bold written by me.<\/span><\/div>\n

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<\/span>My name is Chip<\/span><\/b> and I’m a 51-year-old white, bisexual male from Boston, Massachusetts, USA, where I work as a professional freelance artist. Currently single and looking. <\/span>

<\/span>How did you come to think of yourself as bisexual?<\/b>
I knew I was bi when as a teenage boy I’d enjoy looking at my older sister’s Playgirl magazines (depicting photos of nude men). I was fascinated by their bodies – athletic, hairy chests, and of course their penises! When I had sex with another man, it felt natural. It felt wonderful. I loved it.<\/span>

<\/b>What does being bisexual mean to you?<\/b>
Being bisexual means I have twice the chance of getting lucky in a bar – LOL! I have the ability to be happy, enjoy relationships and sexual intimacy with both men and women without guilt.<\/span>

<\/span>Has this changed over the years, and if so how?<\/b><\/div>\n

For men, it is harder to be bisexual than women,. If a woman openly flirts or kisses another woman it’s hot, and accepted. If a guy openly flirts with or kisses another guy, he’s labelled as gay.<\/span>

<\/span>What do other people in your life know about your bisexuality and how do they react? <\/b><\/span>
After years in the closet, inspired by the positive reaction of a Boston sports writer, who came out as gay, and at the urging of friends who are lesbians, I decided to come out on a Facebook status update. I explained that I had an announcement to make. I wrote for years I had been intimately attracted to both men and women,. That to support my art career I had worked as a stripper in a gay bar. In closing, I said I wanted to come out of the closet and let you all know I am a happy bisexual man. Then I went to bed. <\/span><\/p>\n

The response the next morning was great and supportive. It felt like a piano off my back. Even some straight girls\/guys introduced me to their gay brothers or cousins for dates. <\/p><\/div>\n

Looking back over your life so far, is there anything you wish you\u2019d done differently? <\/b>
I wish I’d come out sooner. No question. Wish I had explored more relationships with guys.<\/div>\n

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What about your hopes or fears for the future regarding bisexuality?<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n
I hope more male and female celebrities come out as bisexual so it gives encouragement to people young and old to enjoy being bisexual without fear of being beaten, bullied or chastised by others. <\/span><\/p>\n

Any words of wisdom for younger bi people \u2013 or older ones? <\/b>
Come our of the closet and enjoy love with whoever you desire without fear or guilt.<\/p>\n

Chip is on Twitter @chipobrien – he is looking to meet bisexual men or women for friendship and more.<\/p><\/div>\n


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Would you like to help combat bi erasure and increase the visibility of bisexual people over 50? There are plenty of us out there, but far too many people don\u2019t know that.<\/o:p><\/i><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n

<\/i><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n
I am looking for other individuals over 50 who would like to contribute their \u201cemail interviews\u201d, as Chip has done here. For more about what to do, look at this post<\/a>. <\/o:p><\/i><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n

<\/i><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n
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Thanks.<\/i><\/b><\/span><\/o:p><\/span><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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<\/span><\/a><\/div>\n

\n<\/div>\n

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<\/span><\/div>\n
I’m so pleased with the response to this series of email interviews with bi people over 50. Thanks again to everyone who has shown interest in this project.<\/span><\/div>\n

<\/span><\/div>\n
Each of the “interviews” is written by the individual concerned, with the questions in bold written by me.<\/span><\/div>\n

<\/span><\/div>\n
***<\/span><\/div>\n


<\/span>My name is Chip<\/span><\/b> and I’m a 51-year-old white, bisexual male from Boston, Massachusetts, USA, where I work as a professional freelance artist. Currently single and looking. <\/span>

<\/span>How did you come to think of yourself as bisexual?<\/b>
I knew I was bi when as a teenage boy I’d enjoy looking at my older sister’s Playgirl magazines (depicting photos of nude men). I was fascinated by their bodies – athletic, hairy chests, and of course their penises! When I had sex with another man, it felt natural. It felt wonderful. I loved it.<\/span>

<\/b>What does being bisexual mean to you?<\/b>
Being bisexual means I have twice the chance of getting lucky in a bar – LOL! I have the ability to be happy, enjoy relationships and sexual intimacy with both men and women without guilt.<\/span>

<\/span>Has this changed over the years, and if so how?<\/b>\n<\/div>\n

\nFor men, it is harder to be bisexual than women,. If a woman openly flirts or kisses another woman it’s hot, and accepted. If a guy openly flirts with or kisses another guy, he’s labelled as gay.<\/span>

<\/span>What do other people in your life know about your bisexuality and how do they react? <\/b><\/span>
After years in the closet, inspired by the positive reaction of a Boston sports writer, who came out as gay, and at the urging of friends who are lesbians, I decided to come out on a Facebook status update. I explained that I had an announcement to make. I wrote for years I had been intimately attracted to both men and women,. That to support my art career I had worked as a stripper in a gay bar. In closing, I said I wanted to come out of the closet and let you all know I am a happy bisexual man. Then I went to bed. <\/span><\/p>\n

The response the next morning was great and supportive. It felt like a piano off my back. Even some straight girls\/guys introduced me to their gay brothers or cousins for dates. <\/p><\/div>\n

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Looking back over your life so far, is there anything you wish you’d done differently? <\/b>
I wish I’d come out sooner. No question. Wish I had explored more relationships with guys.<\/div>\n

<\/span><\/div>\n
What about your hopes or fears for the future regarding bisexuality?<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n
\nI hope more male and female celebrities come out as bisexual so it gives encouragement to people young and old to enjoy being bisexual without fear of being beaten, bullied or chastised by others. <\/span><\/p>\n

Any words of wisdom for younger bi people – or older ones? <\/b>
Come our of the closet and enjoy love with whoever you desire without fear or guilt.<\/p>\n

Chip is on Twitter @chipobrien – he is looking to meet bisexual men or women for friendship and more.<\/p><\/div>\n


<\/span><\/div>\n

<\/span><\/div>\n
Would you like to help combat bi erasure and increase the visibility of bisexual people over 50? There are plenty of us out there, but far too many people don’t know that.<\/p>\n

<\/i><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n


<\/i><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n
I am looking for other individuals over 50 who would like to contribute their “email interviews”, as Chip has done here. For more about what to do, look at this post<\/a>. <\/p>\n

<\/i><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n


<\/i><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n
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\nThanks.<\/i><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

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