{"id":481,"date":"2010-04-26T18:22:00","date_gmt":"2010-04-26T18:22:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bimedia.org\/blogs\/?guid=ee1f1f92d8b1980d2f98a56289ad870f"},"modified":"2010-04-26T18:29:19","modified_gmt":"2010-04-26T18:29:19","slug":"ten-reasons-you-need-this-bisexual-blog-2010-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bimedia.org\/blogs\/2010\/04\/ten-reasons-you-need-this-bisexual-blog-2010-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Ten Reasons You Need This Bisexual Blog 2010"},"content":{"rendered":"

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This post<\/a>, originally from September 2006, is by far the most read and commented on thing I have written on this blog – so I thought it was worth a reprint. And what I say about myself in point 10 – still true now. Things just aren’t changing quickly enough.<\/p>\n

So why do we still need this bisexual blog?<\/p>\n

1. Because almost everyone thinks almost everyone is really gay or straight. Or more probably straight or gay. There is no bisexuality.
2. Except among female celebrities, where there may be bisexuality… of a kind.
3. And although there are a lot of sex sites where bisexual people get together, there’s nowhere at all dedicated to the discussion of bisexuality. If you have a blog that does just this, for God’s sake get in touch and I’ll buy you a drink. A big one. What we have to discuss will take a while.
4. In any case, there are hardly any British blogs that discuss sexuality at all. If they do, it’s about bloggers’ own personal experiences. See post below.
5. The blogs that do talk about sex are from the US. Come on now, fellow Brits. Let’s get talking.
6. And whenever bisexuality is mentioned in public, people still curl their lips, as if to say “oh yeah?”
7. So hardly anyone comes out.
8. Making everyone else think that bisexuality doesn’t exist; and bi individuals that they are the only one ever.
9. Especially if they are men.
10. In any case, I need to write this blog. I do. Because it bugs the hell out of me that still, in the 21st century, what seems self-evident to me – that many people, men as well as women, desire, or love, or have sex with, men and women – seems so hard to grasp for so many people. I know I’m not the only one who thinks they need to wise up.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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