{"id":6394,"date":"2014-10-07T15:47:29","date_gmt":"2014-10-07T15:47:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.uncharted-worlds.org\/blog\/?p=1111"},"modified":"2014-10-07T15:47:29","modified_gmt":"2014-10-07T15:47:29","slug":"three-levels-of-bi-erasure","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bimedia.org\/blogs\/2014\/10\/three-levels-of-bi-erasure\/","title":{"rendered":"Three levels of bi erasure"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"intro\">\n\t\t\tI&#8217;m thinking let&#8217;s talk more about bi erasure.  Here, I attempt to put into everyday language some ideas from Kenji Yoshino&#8217;s excellent essay on the subject, <em class=\"citetitle\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.kenjiyoshino.com\/articles\/epistemiccontract.pdf\"  title=\"&#34;The epistemic contract of bisexual erasure&#34;, by Kenji Yoshino (PDF).\">The&nbsp;epistemic contract of bisexual erasure<\/a><\/em>&nbsp;(PDF).\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/uncharted-worlds.org\/graphics\/blog\/illustrations\/BiErasureGraphicJenniferMoore2014.png\" alt=\"Illustration: a hand with a rubber labelled &#34;bi erasure&#34; is rubbing out the B of &#34;LGB&#34;.\"><\/p>\n<p><lj-cut>The under-representation of bi people is often spoken of in terms of &#8220;bi invisibility&#8221;.  September&nbsp;23, <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Celebrate_Bisexuality_Day\" title=\"Wikipedia page for &#34;Celebrate Bisexuality Day&#34;\">International Celebrate Bisexuality Day<\/a>, is also known as <a href=\"http:\/\/september23.bi.org\/\" title=\"&#34;September23&#34; page at bi.org.\">Bi Visibility Day<\/a>.<sup><b><a name=\"name\" href=\"http:\/\/www.uncharted-worlds.org\/blog\/2014\/10\/three-levels-of-bi-erasure\/#footnote.name\" title=\"An aside on this name becoming more popular.\" class=\"footnote\">1<\/a><\/b><\/sup>\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\tBut as Marcus of the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bisexualindex.org.uk\/\" title=\"The Bisexual Index: good jumping-off point for bi info, especially in the UK.\">Bisexual Index<\/a> said earlier this year in <a href=\"http:\/\/adjectivemarcus.livejournal.com\/501715.html\" title=\"Article by Marcus Morgan: &#34;For bisexual activists, what is most tiring?&#34;\">a&nbsp;good rant<\/a>:\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>\n\t\t\t\t\tBisexuals are not invisible.  We&nbsp;are erased.  Invisibility is an active effort &#8211; making oneself hide or taking on a disguise.  We&nbsp;aren&#8217;t doing that.  We&#8217;re being deleted.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>\n\t\t\tYes!  Here I&nbsp;am, all year round.  And I&#8217;m not misreading <em>myself<\/em> as straight or gay.  If I&#8217;m not visible as bi, it&#8217;s because <em>other<\/em> people are assuming things.\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\tErasure and stigma connects up with why bi people, on average, do worse on a lot of health &amp; social measures than straight people, and worse even than lesbian &amp; gay people.<sup><b><a name=\"health-stats\" href=\"http:\/\/www.uncharted-worlds.org\/blog\/2014\/10\/three-levels-of-bi-erasure\/#footnote.health-stats\" title=\"Source of stats, and a comment on them.\" class=\"footnote\">2<\/a><\/b><\/sup>\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\tMarcus went on to ask:\n\t\t<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>\n\t\t\tBut what can be done about&nbsp;it?\n\t\t<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>\n\t\t\tI&#8217;ve been thinking about this.<sup><b><a name=\"back-story\" href=\"http:\/\/www.uncharted-worlds.org\/blog\/2014\/10\/three-levels-of-bi-erasure\/#footnote.back-story\" title=\"A little piece of coincidental back-story.\" class=\"footnote\">3<\/a><\/b><\/sup>\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\tWhat I would like to encourage is:  more and more, <strong>we&nbsp;phase out talking in terms of &#8220;bi&nbsp;invisibility&#8221;<\/strong> (except where that really is the only way of putting it which makes sense), <strong>and more and more, describe things in terms of &#8220;bi&nbsp;erasure&#8221; instead<\/strong>.\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\tI&#8217;m not saying that&#8217;s The Answer That Will Solve Everything.  I&nbsp;just think it&#8217;s heading in a good direction.   I&nbsp;think it helps to make more visible the processes of erasure&#8230; which I&nbsp;suspect is likely to help with challenging and undoing them.\n\t\t<\/p>\n<h2><a name=\"a-key-resource\"><\/a>A key resource<\/h2>\n<p>\n\t\t\tA valuable resource in this area is <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Kenji_Yoshino\" title=\"Wikipedia page about Kenji Yoshino.\">Kenji Yoshino<\/a>&#8216;s paper <em class=\"citetitle\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.kenjiyoshino.com\/articles\/epistemiccontract.pdf\" title=\"&#34;The epistemic contract of bisexual erasure&#34;, by Kenji Yoshino (PDF).\">The&nbsp;epistemic contract of bisexual erasure<\/a><\/em>&nbsp;(PDF).<sup><b><a name=\"thanks\" href=\"http:\/\/www.uncharted-worlds.org\/blog\/2014\/10\/three-levels-of-bi-erasure\/#footnote.thanks\" title=\"Thanks to Kenji Yoshino, and to other writers on this topic, and to you the reader :-)\" class=\"footnote\">4<\/a><\/b><\/sup>  This dates from 2000.\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\tFor some reason, I&nbsp;never found out about it at the time.  And&nbsp;then when I did, I&nbsp;was like &#8220;wow, this is excellent, why did I never see it before?!&#8221;\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\tI&nbsp;suspect probably part of why it&#8217;s not more famous is that it&#8217;s quite long, and written in academic style.  It&nbsp;includes a fair bit of &#8220;carefully step by step making the argument watertight&#8221;, in&nbsp;keeping with its original legal-research context.\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\tEver since I first read it, I&#8217;ve had in mind that a helpful next move would&nbsp;be:  distil out some key bits and put them into more ordinary language.  This would help us to start deploying the ideas more often &#8211; in bi politics, and potentially also in other areas where erasure is a factor.  And that&#8217;s what this post is mostly for!<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\tBefore I get onto that, a quick tangent:  Bi-specific erasure isn&#8217;t the only source of bi invisibility.  Queerness in general is <a href=\"http:\/\/hansard.millbanksystems.com\/lords\/1921\/aug\/15\/commons-amendment-2\" title=\"Hansard from 1921 on &#34;gross indecency between female persons&#34;: &#34;... you are going to tell the whole world that there is such an offence, to bring it to the notice of women who have never heard of it, never thought of it, never dreamed of it. I think that is a very great mischief...&#34; &#34;... of every thousand women, taken as a whole, 999 have never even heard a whisper of these practices.&#34; &#34;The more you advertise vice by prohibiting it the more you will increase it.&#34;\">erased<\/a> at <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Section_28\" title=\"Wikipedia page on Section 28 of the Local Government act 1998, repealed in England in 2003. This is the one which famously described homosexuality as &#34;a pretended family relationship&#34;, and forbade councils from &#34;promoting&#34;&nbsp;it.\">times<\/a> (&#8220;the love which dare not speak its name&#8221;).  There are also social rules limiting  <em>all<\/em> discussion of sexuality.\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\tThese other factors are worth thinking about too.  But here, I&#8217;m&nbsp;focusing on the types of erasure which affect bi people in particular.\n\t\t<\/p>\n<h2><a name=\"yoshinos-3-levels-of-bi-erasure\"><\/a>Yoshino&#8217;s 3 levels of bi erasure<\/h2>\n<p>\n\t\t\tIn Yoshino&#8217;s analysis, there are <strong>3 levels of bi&nbsp;erasure<\/strong>.  They work in a kind of layered stack, so that if one fails, the next one activates.  Putting them into everyday language:\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n<div class=\"orderedlist\">\n<ol type=\"1\">\n<li>\n<p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<strong>There&#8217;s no such thing<\/strong>.\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<strong>OK, then, there is, but <em>you&#8217;re<\/em> not one of them<\/strong>.\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<strong>OK then, you are &#8211; and here&#8217;s what&#8217;s wrong with you and your kind<\/strong>.\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/div>\n<p>\n\t\t\tYoshino calls these, respectively, &#8220;<span class=\"quote\"><strong>class erasure<\/strong><\/span>&#8221;, &#8220;<span class=\"quote\"><strong>individual erasure<\/strong><\/span>&#8221; and &#8220;<span class=\"quote\"><strong>delegitimation<\/strong><\/span>&#8221;.\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\tYou&#8217;ll notice that the third one, &#8220;delegitimation&#8221;, isn&#8217;t exactly a type of erasure in itself.  Its&nbsp;main role in the overall system of erasure is to make it less safe for people to challenge the first&nbsp;two.\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\tMore than one of these &#8220;levels&#8221; can be operating at the same time.  But&nbsp;first I&#8217;m going to zoom in on each one separately.\n\t\t<\/p>\n<h2><a name=\"class-erasure-theres-no-such-thing\"><\/a>1.  Class erasure:  There&#8217;s no such thing<\/h2>\n<p>\n\t\t\tClass erasure can be either explicit (said in words) or implicit (e.g. via words you <em>avoid<\/em> saying).\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\t<strong>Explicit<\/strong> class erasure is things like &#8220;<strong>bisexuality doesn&#8217;t exist<\/strong>&#8220;.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>\n\t\t\t\t\tOh, <em>honey<\/em>. Nobody&#8217;s <em>really<\/em> bi. People just say that until they figure things out. So which is it gonna be?\n\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<p class=\"quote-source\">\n\t\t\t\t\t&#8211; gay friend in <a href=\"http:\/\/inadvertentfeminist.wordpress.com\/2014\/08\/30\/there-is-a-b-in-there-you-know-im-more-than-an-ally\/\" title=\"Article by inadvertentfeminist: There IS a &#34;B&#34; in There, You Know. I'm More Than &#34;an Ally.&#34; \">inadvertentfeminist&#8217;s story of growing up bi<\/a>, well worth a read.\n\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>\n\t\t\tOther good examples include <a href=\"http:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/skarlan\/15-confessions-from-people-who-dont-believe-bisexuality-exis#hx5xjv\" title=\"Article at Buzzfeed: &#34;15 Confessions From People Who Don't Believe Bisexuality Exists&#34;.\">this set of quotes<\/a>, and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2011\/08\/23\/health\/23bisexual.html\" title=\"Article at NYT: &#34;No Surprise for Bisexual Men: Report Indicates They Exist&#34;.\">some well-known badly-done research about bisexual men<\/a>.\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\t<strong>Implicit<\/strong> class erasure is people repeatedly <strong>leaving&nbsp;out<\/strong> the word &amp; idea &#8220;bisexual&#8221; where it would make sense to include&nbsp;it.  &#8220;Blah blah gay and straight&#8221;, &#8220;heterosexual and homosexual&#8221;, &#8220;gay and lesbian&#8221;.\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\tThis way of talking and thinking links up with mistaken logic such as:  &#8220;Is&nbsp;so-and-so gay?&#8221; &#8220;No,&nbsp;he&#8217;s straight &#8211; I&nbsp;know his girlfriend&#8221;.  Or &#8220;Is&nbsp;so-and-so gay?&#8221; &#8220;Yes&nbsp;&#8211; I&#8217;ve&nbsp;met his boyfriend&#8221;.\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\tUnintentional, unthinking erasure of this <strong>implicit<\/strong> kind is very common in present-day mainstream culture.  It&#8217;s even done by bi people ourselves by accident sometimes.  It&nbsp;can take work to <strong>unlearn the habit<\/strong>:  first, making a conscious decision not to erase&nbsp;\/ forget&nbsp;\/ ignore bi people any more, and then practising and failing, failing and practising, till it becomes more usual to remember.\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\tThe idea &#8220;Bisexuality is <strong>fashionable<\/strong>&#8221; can arguably also fit into the &#8220;class erasure&#8221; level, even though it doesn&#8217;t erase bisexuality 100%.  &#8220;Bisexuality is fashionable&#8221; says something like:  &#8220;Bisexuality can exist, <em>but only temporarily<\/em>, so we needn&#8217;t count it properly&#8221;, or &#8220;People in this category are only playing, not for&nbsp;real&#8221;.  That kind of erasure doesn&#8217;t entirely rub out the category;  instead, it makes it kind of wobbly and unsatisfactory, in contrast to lesbian, gay and straight which are shown as &#8220;real&#8221;.\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\tYoshino says about that:\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>\n\t\t\t\t\tA more subtle strategy of implicit class erasure is the description of bisexuality as &#8220;bisexual chic&#8221; &#8230;   As the phrase suggests, bisexuality is here made visible as a phase, fashion, or fad &#8211; its appearance is inscribed with its imminent disappearance.\n\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h2><a name=\"individual-erasure-youre-not-one-of-them\"><\/a>2.  Individual erasure:  <em>You&#8217;re<\/em> not one of them<\/h2>\n<p>\n\t\t\tExamples of individual erasure include:\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n<div class=\"itemizedlist\">\n<ul type=\"disc\">\n<li>\n<p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\tWhen the other person reckons <strong>they know you better than you know yourself<\/strong>.  &#8220;But don&#8217;t you think you&#8217;re just a bit <em>confused<\/em>?&#8221;\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tShe told me that I&nbsp;was a fake and was lying about who I&nbsp;was. &#8230; I&nbsp;felt so uncomfortable that I decided to repress myself and never talk about it, never look at other girls and whenever I felt something for them, send those feelings to the back of my head, because I thought I didn&#8217;t deserve to like them if I also liked men.\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<p class=\"quote-source\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t&#8211; <a href=\"http:\/\/empathizethis.com\/stories\/prejudice-pride\/#comment-617\">Nadja, in comments at Empathize This<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\tThe idea that you have to &#8220;<strong>prove<\/strong>&#8221; your bisexuality by having some particular sexual history &#8211; e.g. people nosily questioning &#8220;so have you ever been with a woman?&#8221;, and\/or talking as though it&#8217;s <strong>up to them to decide<\/strong> whether your history &#8220;counts&#8221;.\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/uncharted-worlds.org\/graphics\/blog\/illustrations\/Judge\/Judge1.png\" alt=\"Two &#34;stick people&#34;. Person on left says &#34;I wanted to tell you something, as a friend...&#34;.\" class=\"cartoon-frame\"> <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/uncharted-worlds.org\/graphics\/blog\/illustrations\/Judge\/Judge2.png\" alt=\"Person on left says &#34;I'm bisexual!&#34;\" class=\"cartoon-frame\"> <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/uncharted-worlds.org\/graphics\/blog\/illustrations\/Judge\/Judge3.png\" alt=\"Bi person looks happy. Friend looks puzzled and has a question mark over their head.\" class=\"cartoon-frame\"> <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/uncharted-worlds.org\/graphics\/blog\/illustrations\/Judge\/Judge4.png\" alt=\"Friend says &#34;Hold on a minute...&#34;\" class=\"cartoon-frame\"> <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/uncharted-worlds.org\/graphics\/blog\/illustrations\/Judge\/Judge5.png\" alt=\"Friend is rummaging in a cupboard.\" class=\"cartoon-frame\"> <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/uncharted-worlds.org\/graphics\/blog\/illustrations\/Judge\/Judge6.png\" alt=\"Friend is now sitting behind a sort of posh table and settling a Judge's wig onto their head. Bi person is taken aback.\" class=\"cartoon-frame\"> <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/uncharted-worlds.org\/graphics\/blog\/illustrations\/Judge\/Judge7.png\" alt=\"Friend dressed as a judge says &#34;So... tell me your evidence for thinking that...&#34;, while smiling.\" class=\"cartoon-frame\"> <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/uncharted-worlds.org\/graphics\/blog\/illustrations\/Judge\/Judge8.png\" alt=\"Bi person looks sad. Friend, still sitting in judge's role, looks pleased with themself.\" class=\"cartoon-frame-last\">\n\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n<li>\n<p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\tAs one variety of that, the idea that only <em>a sexual history with equal numbers of women and men<\/em> is enough to &#8220;prove&#8221; someone&#8217;s bisexuality &#8211; never mind what opportunities you&#8217;ve actually been offered in reality, or how you feel.\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\tRewriting or <strong>mislabelling<\/strong> bi characters in fiction.\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tan upcoming television adaptation of  <a href=\"http:\/\/www.dccomics.com\/characters\/constantine\" title=\"DC Comics page describing &#34;occult detective&#34; John Constantine, originally written as bisexual.\">Constantine<\/a>&#8216;s adventures will portray him as straight.\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<p class=\"quote-source\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t&#8211; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/commentisfree\/2014\/sep\/23\/popular-culture-afraid-of-bisexuality-john-constantine\" title=\"Article by Owen Duffy at the Guardian, &#34;Popular culture is still afraid of bisexuality&#34;.\">Owen Duffy writing recently about bi erasure in fiction and in life<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\tLabelling famous and\/or historical figures as gay or lesbian, when in fact they&#8217;ve had other-sex relationships which were evidently important to them, and they didn&#8217;t use those words themselves.\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t(I&#8217;ve written already about what happened when Tom Daley fell in love with a man and dared to not immediately box himself into the box labelled &#8220;gay&#8221; &#8211; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.uncharted-worlds.org\/blog\/2014\/04\/labels-bi-erasure-and-tom-daleys-words\/\" title=\"Article by me: &#34;Labels, bi erasure and Tom Daley's words&#34;.\">how keen other people were to do it for him<\/a>.  Whether or not Tom D would&#8217;ve eventually chosen that label <em>himself<\/em>, other people doing it <em>for<\/em> him <strong>is bi erasure at work<\/strong>.)\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p>When gay &amp; lesbian people refer to bi people as &#8220;allies&#8221;, implying that we&#8217;re really straight.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\tAnd one of the most common:  Suggesting that someone&#8217;s bisexuality is a passing phase, linked with <strong>immaturity<\/strong>, <strong>cowardice<\/strong> or lack of insight.  &#8220;You&#8217;ll grow out of it&#8221;, &#8220;one day you&#8217;ll come out <em>properly<\/em>&#8220;, &#8220;sitting on the fence&#8221;, &#8220;bi now, gay later&#8221;.\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t(In reality, that road goes both ways:   some people are &#8220;gay first, bi later&#8221;.  This change can arise from realising you&#8217;re feeling an attraction you never expected to feel.  Or&nbsp;it can simply be that calling yourself gay feels safer or easier at first for whatever reason &#8211; indeed, possibly <em>because<\/em> of bi stigma. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.starobserver.com.au\/opinion\/soapbox-opinion\/its-time-to-stop-mocking-bisexuals-and-end-biphobia\/128193\" title=\"Article by Monique Thorpe, &#34;It's time to stop mocking bisexuals and end biphobia&#34;.\">Monique Thorpe<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/jcbernthal.com\/2014\/09\/23\/bivisibilityday\/\" title=\"Article by J C Bernthal, &#34;#BiVisibilityDay&#34;.\">J&nbsp;C&nbsp;Bernthal<\/a> have recently written about this firsthand.)\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tSelf-described bisexuality is thus seen not as a stable individual identity but a place from which a stable monosexual identity is acknowledged or chosen.  &#8230;\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tThe belief that bisexuals are protohomosexuals is a particularly prevalent one among gays.\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<p>\n\t\t\tThese common moves don&#8217;t erase the <em>whole idea<\/em> of bisexuality.  But they continually, relentlessly, <em>undermine people&#8217;s ability to claim it<\/em> and have their claim acknowledged.\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\tIndividual erasure also contributes to class erasure:  the&nbsp;fewer people &#8220;allowed to count&#8221; as&nbsp;bi, the&nbsp;smaller the group.  (By&nbsp;some &#8220;definitions&#8221;, almost no-one qualifies.)\n\t\t<\/p>\n<h2><a name=\"delegitimation-heres-whats-wrong-with-you\"><\/a>3.  Delegitimation:  Here&#8217;s what&#8217;s wrong with you and your kind<\/h2>\n<p>\n\t\t\tExamples of delegitimation include:<\/p>\n<div class=\"itemizedlist\">\n<ul type=\"disc\">\n<li>\n<p>\n\t\t\t\t\tWords such as &#8220;greedy&#8221; and &#8220;traitor&#8221;:  these are not normally compliments.\n\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p>\n\t\t\t\t\tDeciding that the &#8220;right&#8221; number of people to have sex with is &#8220;not very many, and definitely only one at a time&#8221;, <em>plus<\/em> assuming that bi people all have <em>lots<\/em> of sex with <em>lots<\/em> of different people, or at least want to.  This links us with stigmatised terms such as &#8220;promiscuous&#8221; and&nbsp;&#8220;slut&#8221;.\n\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p>\n\t\t\t\tTalking about bi&nbsp;people as transmitters of HIV from &#8220;dirty&#8221; men to &#8220;pure and innocent&#8221; women.\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p>\n\t\t\t\t\tThe idea that we&#8217;re naturally unreliable, untrustworthy, &#8220;unable to commit&#8221;.\n\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<p>\n\t\t\tThe more these stereotypes are &#8220;how people will see you&#8221;, the <strong>less safe<\/strong> it is to come out or speak up.\n\t\t<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>\n\t\t\t\t\tI&nbsp;feel incredibly sad and hopeless when gay and lesbian people call me insulting names. If&nbsp;gay and lesbian people don&#8217;t understand me &#8211; having been on the receiving end of hate themselves &#8211; then how will anyone else understand?  &#8230;  Pride is supposed to be a celebration, but it hasn&#8217;t been for me on many occasions.\n\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<p class=\"quote-source\">&#8211; <a href=\"http:\/\/writteninshadows.wordpress.com\/\">@applewriter<\/a>&#8216;s story at Empathize This, <a href=\"http:\/\/empathizethis.com\/stories\/prejudice-pride\/\" title=\"Story cartoon at Empathize This, &#34;Prejudice at Pride&#34;\">Prejudice at Pride<\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h2><a name=\"combinations\"><\/a>Combinations<\/h2>\n<p>\n\t\tOne word or situation can include more than one of these ingredients. Examples:\n\t<\/p>\n<div class=\"itemizedlist\">\n<ul type=\"disc\">\n<li>\n<p>\n\t\t\t&#8220;Confused&#8221; and &#8220;greedy&#8221; are put-downs (level 3).\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\tEach of them can <em>also<\/em> be used to brush away bisexuality as a valid label to choose:  &#8220;you&#8217;re just greedy&#8221;, &#8220;you&#8217;re just confused&#8221;.\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\t&#8220;Just&#8221;?\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\tWith the word &#8220;just&#8221;, the sentence is swopping out the category &#8220;bi&#8221;, and swopping in the label &#8220;greedy&#8221;.  It&#8217;s&nbsp;as&nbsp;if to say &#8220;There are no bisexuals as such, only greedy people&#8221;.  So I&nbsp;think these accusations can be a subtle kind of individual or class erasure (levels 2&nbsp;&amp;&nbsp;1), on top of the more obvious put-down.\n\t\t<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p>The idea that bi people are &#8220;latecomers&#8221; to gay liberation.  This can be a kind of put-down, suggesting we&#8217;re lazy and ungrateful (level 3) &#8211; we &#8220;haven&#8217;t done the work but want the rewards&#8221;.  But it <em>originates<\/em> from the erasure of bi people from history (level 2), or the erasure of their bisexuality (level 2), or telling gay liberation stories as if bisexuality didn&#8217;t exist then (level 1).\n\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\t\t\tFor example, <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Brenda_Howard\" title=\"Wikipedia page for Brenda Howard.\">Brenda Howard<\/a> was a Gay Liberation Front activist in the US, and one of the original inventors (back in 1970) of what we now know as &#8220;Pride&#8221;.  Many people either have never heard of her at all, or didn&#8217;t know that she was also one of the leaders &amp; creators of bi community activism in her day.\n\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p>\n\t\t\t\t\t&#8220;Pick a side&#8221; could be implying the &#8220;bisexual side&#8221; isn&#8217;t good enough (level 3), or that the person is &#8220;lagging behind&#8221; normal development (level 3).  Or it could be implying there simply <em>isn&#8217;t<\/em> a bisexual side (level 1).\n\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<p>\n\t\t\tI like the idea of, when we encounter bi erasure, stopping for a moment to analyse which levels are at play, and getting more familiar with the way it works as a system.\n\t\t<\/p>\n<h2><a name=\"whats-driving-it\"><\/a>What&#8217;s driving it?<\/h2>\n<p>\n\t\t\tOften it&#8217;s bi and <em>gay<\/em> people getting lumped together, and experiencing similar oppressions.  So&nbsp;it could seem odd that mainstream culture and gay culture hold similar stereotypes about bi people.  Why&nbsp;is&nbsp;it that both groups tend to edit us out of the picture in strangely similar ways?\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\tYoshino&#8217;s essay includes some theories about that &#8211; including that for gay people, bisexuality complicates the neat political justification of &#8220;We were born this way, we can&#8217;t help it&#8221;.\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\tThe phrase &#8220;epistemic contract&#8221; means the ways in which mainstream culture and lesbian &amp; gay communities &#8220;seem to agree&#8221; about ways to erase and stigmatise us (even though not all the motivations overlap).\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\tFor now, I&#8217;m not going to get into the various reasons people might have for feeling uncomfortable about our existence.  For now, I&#8217;ll just flag up that there <em>are<\/em> incentives for not recognising and not acknowledging us.  It <em>is<\/em> often easier for people to refuse to deal with how we mess up people&#8217;s neat and wrong ideas about the world.  So the system of erasure didn&#8217;t just come from a little mistake, and people won&#8217;t necessarily respond with &#8220;oh oops, very sorry, will always remember and include you in future&#8221;.\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\tIn other words, it&#8217;s not the kind of thing which is likely to reverse instantly or quickly. \t\tBut&nbsp;noticing what&#8217;s happening is always a good foundation.\n\t\t<\/p>\n<h2><a name=\"hopes-for-what-next\"><\/a>Hopes for what next<\/h2>\n<p>\n\t\t\tWhat I&#8217;d like to see going forward is an increasing number of us feeling increasingly confident in pointing out when bi erasure is happening.  With or without the level of detail described here, I&nbsp;think there&#8217;s something powerful about naming it.\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\tEvery time we <strong>redescribe invisibility in terms of the erasure which led to it<\/strong>, we re-focus on how things got to be this way&#8230; and maybe also on solutions.\n\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\tMy favourite writing from this year&#8217;s ICBD included this:\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>\n\t\t\t\t\tBi Visibility Day isn&#8217;t about bisexuals having to out ourselves. It&#8217;s asking people to look around &amp; set aside assumption of gay or straight\n\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\t\t\t&#8211; <a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/bisexualindex\/status\/514338794926247936\" title=\"A tweet from The Bisexual Index, 23 September 2014.\">@bisexualindex<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>\n\t\t\tAnd this:\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>\n\t\t\t\t\tAssume people are straight until you &#8216;suspect&#8217; they&#8217;re gay? Today, just for today, consider all strangers bisexual\n\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\t\t\t\t&#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/bisexualindex\/status\/514356047050727424\" title=\"Another tweet from The Bisexual Index, 23 September 2014.\">@bisexualindex<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>\n\t\t\tThose invite people to notice the so-called &#8220;invisibility&#8221; where it is:  in the eye of the beholder.\n\t\t<\/p>\n<div class=\"footnotes\">\n<div class=\"footnote\">\n<p><a name=\"footnote.name\" href=\"http:\/\/www.uncharted-worlds.org\/blog\/2014\/10\/three-levels-of-bi-erasure\/#name\" class=\"para\">1<\/a>. &#8220;<strong>International Celebrate Bisexuality Day<\/strong>&#8221; vs &#8220;<strong>Bi Visibility Day<\/strong>&#8220;:  In fact, reading online stuff on the day this year, I&nbsp;was noticing that &#8220;Bi Visibility Day&#8221; currently seems to be considerably more popular than the original name.  Perhaps that&#8217;s partly because it&#8217;s shorter for <a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/BiVisibilityDay?src=hash\" title=\"#BiVisibilityDay hashtag feed on Twitter.\">hashtagging<\/a>&#8230; perhaps also because it lends itself to ironic <a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/bisexualindex\/status\/514311988277964800\/\" title=\"A silly and amusing tweet.\">jokes about superpowers and suchlike<\/a>&nbsp;\ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"footnote\">\n<p><a name=\"footnote.health-stats\" href=\"http:\/\/www.uncharted-worlds.org\/blog\/2014\/10\/three-levels-of-bi-erasure\/#health-stats\" class=\"para\">2<\/a>. <strong>Doing worse on average<\/strong>:  See <a href=\"http:\/\/bimedia.org\/bireport\/\" title=\"The Bisexuality Report page at BiMedia. Offers link to PDF of full report.\">The Bisexuality Report<\/a> (UK) and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lgbtmap.org\/understanding-issues-facing-bisexual-Americans\" title=\"&#34;Understanding Issues Facing Bisexual Americans&#34;. Page offers link to PDF download.\">Understanding Issues Facing Bisexual Americans<\/a> (USA).  The statistical differences are a pretty good hint that bi people aren&#8217;t actually &#8220;only oppressed when acting gay&#8221;, or &#8220;only half as oppressed as gay people&#8221;. \t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"footnote\">\n<p><a name=\"footnote.back-story\" href=\"http:\/\/www.uncharted-worlds.org\/blog\/2014\/10\/three-levels-of-bi-erasure\/#back-story\" class=\"para\">3<\/a>. <strong>A coincidence<\/strong>:  Oddly enough, the very day I saw Marcus&#8217;s rant, I&#8217;d just that morning put the Yoshino article handy, thinking &#8220;I&nbsp;want to read through this again before I write about it&#8221;.  Maybe this means that noticing &amp; reversing bi&nbsp;erasure is an&nbsp;idea whose time has come?&nbsp;\ud83d\ude42\n\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"footnote\">\n<p><a name=\"footnote.thanks\" href=\"http:\/\/www.uncharted-worlds.org\/blog\/2014\/10\/three-levels-of-bi-erasure\/#thanks\" class=\"para\">4<\/a>. <strong>Thanks<\/strong> to Kenji Yoshino for doing the useful thinking I&#8217;ve drawn on here, and thanks to everyone else who&#8217;s been writing about bi erasure &#8211; and thanks readers for reading this!\n\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"toc\">Here, have an index&#8230;<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.uncharted-worlds.org\/blog\/2014\/10\/three-levels-of-bi-erasure\/#top\">Three levels of bi erasure<\/a><br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.uncharted-worlds.org\/blog\/2014\/10\/three-levels-of-bi-erasure\/#a-key-resource\">A key resource<\/a><br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.uncharted-worlds.org\/blog\/2014\/10\/three-levels-of-bi-erasure\/#yoshinos-3-levels-of-bi-erasure\">Yoshino&#8217;s 3 levels of bi erasure<\/a><br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.uncharted-worlds.org\/blog\/2014\/10\/three-levels-of-bi-erasure\/#class-erasure-theres-no-such-thing\">1.  Class erasure:  There&#8217;s no such thing<\/a><br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.uncharted-worlds.org\/blog\/2014\/10\/three-levels-of-bi-erasure\/#individual-erasure-youre-not-one-of-them\">2.  Individual erasure:  You&#8217;re not one of them<\/a><br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.uncharted-worlds.org\/blog\/2014\/10\/three-levels-of-bi-erasure\/#delegitimation-heres-whats-wrong-with-you\">3.  Delegitimation:  Here&#8217;s what&#8217;s wrong with you and your kind<\/a><br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.uncharted-worlds.org\/blog\/2014\/10\/three-levels-of-bi-erasure\/#combinations\">Combinations<\/a><br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.uncharted-worlds.org\/blog\/2014\/10\/three-levels-of-bi-erasure\/#whats-driving-it\">What&#8217;s driving it?<\/a><br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.uncharted-worlds.org\/blog\/2014\/10\/three-levels-of-bi-erasure\/#hopes-for-what-next\">Hopes for what next<\/a><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>\nCopyright &copy; Jennifer Moore 2014.  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