{"id":954,"date":"2013-11-29T21:38:00","date_gmt":"2013-11-29T21:38:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bimedia.org\/blogs\/?guid=8955a230e529aeb51faa30380564b189"},"modified":"2013-11-29T21:38:08","modified_gmt":"2013-11-29T21:38:08","slug":"the-pilling-report-a-bisexual-perspective","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bimedia.org\/blogs\/2013\/11\/the-pilling-report-a-bisexual-perspective\/","title":{"rendered":"The Pilling Report &#8211; A bisexual perspective"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The Church of England published today a report commissioned in January 2012, named&nbsp;<span style=\"background-color: white; line-height: 16.5625px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;\"><i>Report of the House of Bishops Working Group on Human Sexuality. <\/i>Many news agencies are trumpeting the news that it contains recommendations that <\/span><\/span><span style=\"background-color: white; line-height: 18px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;\">&#8220;there can be circumstances where a priest, with the agreement of the relevant parochial church council, should be free to mark the formation of a permanent same-sex relationship in a public service but should be under no obligation to do so.&#8221;<\/span><\/span><br \/><span style=\"background-color: white; line-height: 18px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;\"><br \/><\/span><\/span><span style=\"background-color: white; line-height: 18px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;\">Exciting as this may be, it was when I was perusing the CofE&#8217;s official news item on its website (<\/span><\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.churchofengland.org\/media-centre\/news\/2013\/11\/pilling-report-published.aspx\">http:\/\/www.churchofengland.org\/media-centre\/news\/2013\/11\/pilling-report-published.aspx<\/a>) that I came upon this sentence &#8211;<span style=\"background-color: white; color: #444444; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16.5625px;\">&nbsp;&#8220;<\/span><span style=\"background-color: white; line-height: 16.5625px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;\">It warmly welcomes and affirms the presence and ministry within the church of gay and lesbian people both lay and ordained.&#8221;<\/span><\/span><br \/><span style=\"background-color: white; line-height: 16.5625px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;\"><br \/><\/span><\/span><span style=\"background-color: white; line-height: 16.5625px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;\">Oh here we go, I thought. Where are the bisexuals please?<\/span><\/span><br \/><span style=\"background-color: white; line-height: 16.5625px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;\"><br \/><\/span><\/span><span style=\"background-color: white; line-height: 16.5625px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;\">So I am going to search the report (PDF:&nbsp;<\/span><\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.churchofengland.org\/media\/1891063\/pilling_report_gs_1929_web.pdf\">http:\/\/www.churchofengland.org\/media\/1891063\/pilling_report_gs_1929_web.pdf<\/a>) for the word &#8216;bisexual&#8217; and write notes here as I go (I haven&#8217;t the time to read through the whole thing, thought I wish I could).<\/p>\n<p>1. First mention is in the classic LGBT list in paragraph 32 on page 6. Not a good start.<br \/>2. Same again in par. 41<br \/>3. Ooh, quoting stats now. 2012 British survey by Office of National statistics &#8211; 0.4% identified as bisexual. Unsurprising that, seeing as it is misunderstood, marginalised, and discriminated against by straight, gay and lesbian people!<br \/>4. OMG they&#8217;ve raised their game, I&#8217;m impressed! The next paragraph is actually quite rational and reassuring:&nbsp;<i><span style=\"font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: x-small;\">These data give a combined total of 1.5% of the adult population that self identifies as homosexual or bisexual&#8230;only gives a snapshot of those who self-identified in this way when the survey was taken. It does not take into account those with a degree of same sex attraction who chose not to identify as homosexual or bisexual, those who would have identified as homosexual or bisexual in the the past but who no longer chose to do so, or those who did not identify as homosexual or bisexual at the times of the survey, but might go on to do so in the future.<\/span><\/i><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;\">5.&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">Par. 199 acknowledges that sexual fluidity is probably a thing!&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">Again, surprised and pleased at the level of knowledge show.&nbsp;<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;\">6. FOLLOWED BY THIS AMAZING PARAGRAPH:&nbsp;<span style=\"font-size: x-small;\"><i>Rather than thinking about the human population in terms of a&nbsp;<\/i><\/span><\/span><i style=\"font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: small;\">fixed binary division between two sets of people, those who are straight&nbsp;<\/i><i style=\"font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: small;\">and those who are gay, it seems that we need to accept that while there is a&nbsp;<\/i><i style=\"font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: small;\">large majority of people who only ever experience heterosexual attraction&nbsp;<\/i><i style=\"font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: small;\">and a smaller number who only experience homosexual attraction, there is&nbsp;<\/i><i style=\"font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: small;\">also a significant minority of people who either experience some form of&nbsp;<\/i><i style=\"font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: small;\">bisexual attraction or who move between heterosexual and homosexual&nbsp;<\/i><i style=\"font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: small;\">attraction at some point or points in their life.<\/i><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">7. And back to being part of the LGB\/T list.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">8. Interesting phrase &#8220;bisexual and same sex attractions&#8221; in par. 418. What are bisexual attractions?? I think they&#8217;ve gone too far with trying to use inclusive language. But good on them for trying!<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">9. OOH Par. 419 points out that we&#8217;re well beyond just dealing with homosexuality and homophobia! Yay.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">10. &#8220;<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;\">What&#8230;would the Church of&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">England say to someone&#8230;<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">who says they identify as&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">gay or lesbian or <u>(increasingly likely)<\/u> as bisexual&#8230;&#8221; Interesting.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">11. Oh, mention of those bisexual attractions again, quite a few times.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">12. And finishing back in the LGBT list.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">Wow, okay, that is encouraging. Amazing that the investigation really stuck into the nature of sexuality, an understanding of which is, I believe, crucial. I think it is that education,&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">above all,<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">that has enlightened the writers and led to their recommendations of progress and improvement. Small steps, but my Church might just be on the right track after all!!<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">Let me know your thoughts in the comments below.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Church of England published today a report commissioned in January 2012, named&nbsp;Report of the House of Bishops Working Group on Human Sexuality. Many news agencies are trumpeting the news that it contains recommendations that &#8220;there can be circ&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":1211,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-954","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bimedia.org\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/954","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bimedia.org\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bimedia.org\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bimedia.org\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bimedia.org\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=954"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bimedia.org\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/954\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9214,"href":"https:\/\/bimedia.org\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/954\/revisions\/9214"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bimedia.org\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1211"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bimedia.org\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=954"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bimedia.org\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=954"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bimedia.org\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=954"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}