#BlackBiBeauty happened on the 25th March 2017 (Exactly 6 months…

#BlackBiBeauty happened on the 25th March 2017 (Exactly 6 months…















#BlackBiBeauty happened on the 25th March 2017 (Exactly 6 months before Bi Visibility Day! http://www.bivisibilityday.com )

The hashtag was the idea of @TheAngryFanGirl https://theangryfangirl.com who wanted to change the narrative on how black bisexuals are viewed.  

What came through when people tweeted about their experiences was that cisgender black bisexual men are still being blamed for the rise in HIV in black communities, thanks to the awful Down Low misinformation.  Black bisexuals who are also trans and nonbinary people are erased from sight.  Black bisexual cisgender women are often hypersexualised. All these groups of black bisexuals face biphobia from lesbians and gays, as well as racism from white LGBT people.  The alienation we live with from inside and outside of the bisexual communities can lead to a poor quality of life, adverse mental health and a feeling that we are the only ones who are like this.  And that’s where #BlackBiBeauty succeeded - it showed the world that we are not alone.  We exist and we are beautiful in our own unique ways.  It was a pleasure to encourage this event into happening, and to see the positivity and friendships that it spawned in such a short time.  I look forward to the next one!

Purple Prose

Purple Prose

Our new UK bi book Purple Prose is launched and for sale. (I co-curated the non-monogamies chapter)http://thorntreepress.com/purple-prose/We had the launch party in Brixton and sold and promoted the book at Leicester Pride.More events are in the pipeli...
Purple Prose

Purple Prose

Our new UK bi book Purple Prose is launched and for sale. (I co-curated the non-monogamies chapter)http://thorntreepress.com/purple-prose/We had the launch party in Brixton and sold and promoted the book at Leicester Pride.More events are in the pipeli...
How to Not Die: Some Survival Tips for Black Women Who Are Asked to Do Too Much

How to Not Die: Some Survival Tips for Black Women Who Are Asked to Do Too Much

How to Not Die: Some Survival Tips for Black Women Who Are Asked to Do Too Much:


Black Lives Matter. And that includes black bisexual lives too.“

Check out the Bi’s of Colour report. https://bisexualresearch.files.wordpress.com/2015/06/bis-of-colour-survey-report.pdf

Bisexuals have higher rates of suicideality, mental and physical health problems, Poverty, homelessness etc than cis lesbian and gay people. Black people have the highest rates too.

Where do you think this leaves black bi people, especially thoae of us who are also Trans and cis women/ gender Variant?

I attended the Independent on Sunday’s Rainbow List…

I attended the Independent on Sunday’s Rainbow List…











I attended the Independent on Sunday’s Rainbow List http://www.independent.co.uk/news/people/therainbowlist/rainbow-list-2015-1-to-101-a6731391.html ceremony on Monday 16th November 2015, as one of only a handful of bisexual people on the list.  It was great to meet some of the other people who were on the list. Sabah Choudhury, Riley Carter Millington, Rose from Black Pride, and CN Lester were all amazing and super friendly.  But a chance conversation with an attendee made me realise that he was none other than Tom Robinson, the singer-songwriter-icon!  I’ve been a fan of Tom’s work since I was a teenager.  The tune, Atmospherics (Listen to the radio) always reminds me of an unrequited love that made me yearn to be close to someone, anyone who would treat me with kindness and affection.  Growing up as I did in such an abusive and violent environment made any thoughts of being treated well seem like an impossible dream.  Meeting Tom Robinson was so great: he gave me a hug, and it almost made me cry!

The ceremony involved a lot of people drinking gallons of champagne and vodka; I had the choice of orange juice or water…  The speech was quite encouraging, there were plenty of photo opportunities, but apart from that, it felt  a bit strange.  I’m still very happy I attended with Katy from Purple Prose and the Bisexual Index.  And meeting Tom Robinson was so special too.

Thanks once again for everyone who nominated me.  I am so happy to have been included on the Rainbow List!