Alan Cumming gives star power to bi-visibility

Alan Cumming gives star power to bi-visibility

  Alan Cumming, OBE is a Scottish actor, singer, writer and director, starring most recently in The Good Wife. Cumming, who is one of the few out bisexual men in Hollywood, married to commercial illustrator Grant Shaffer, is also a long-time acti...
Alan Cumming gives star power to bi-visibility

Alan Cumming gives star power to bi-visibility

  Alan Cumming, OBE is a Scottish actor, singer, writer and director, starring most recently in The Good Wife. Cumming, who is one of the few out bisexual men in Hollywood, married to commercial illustrator Grant Shaffer, is also a long-time acti...
Driving Down Memory Lane
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Driving Down Memory Lane

I'm typing this from the De Vere Venues Horsley Park, where I'm staying for two nights on work expenses. It's not quite as great as the website makes it look - at least, not when I'm not getting to mosey around the grounds before it gets dark. I'm here...
Driving Down Memory Lane
Posted ingetting old life ponderings work

Driving Down Memory Lane

I'm typing this from the De Vere Venues Horsley Park, where I'm staying for two nights on work expenses. It's not quite as great as the website makes it look - at least, not when I'm not getting to mosey around the grounds before it gets dark. I'm here...
Driving Down Memory Lane
Posted ingetting old life ponderings work

Driving Down Memory Lane

I'm typing this from the De Vere Venues Horsley Park, where I'm staying for two nights on work expenses. It's not quite as great as the website makes it look - at least, not when I'm not getting to mosey around the grounds before it gets dark. I'm here...
National Coming Out Day
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National Coming Out Day

Happy National Coming Out Day everyone! For those who don't know what it is, here's the Human Rights Campaign page.As I said in my last post, I'm bisexual. Even if I wasn't though, LGBT equality is still so so important, as no one should feel in fear o...
National Coming Out Day
Posted inbisexuality sexuality

National Coming Out Day

Happy National Coming Out Day everyone! For those who don't know what it is, here's the Human Rights Campaign page.As I said in my last post, I'm bisexual. Even if I wasn't though, LGBT equality is still so so important, as no one should feel in fear o...
‘We need a bisexual haircut!’ : bi activist Amy André’s bitter-sweet take on walking down the street with her spouse

‘We need a bisexual haircut!’ : bi activist Amy André’s bitter-sweet take on walking down the street with her spouse

 

photo-by-Marlo-GayleAmy André is a bi woman married to a lesbian. When walking together one day, near their home in San Francisco, a man in a pick-up truck shouted at them as he drove by: “Lesbians!”

“I’ll take it!” was André‘s reply. “Because even though I'm not a lesbian, it's certainly no insult to be mistaken for one, especially if the mistake is based on my awesome hair style!”

André is the co-author of Bisexual Health, published by the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force, and is an in-demand speaker on bisexual and overall LGBT issues. She holds a masters in Sexuality Studies and an MBA from UC Berkeley.

And she has short hair. Was that the marker then for this truck driver? Short hair marks a woman as lesbian? André and her spouse, Dr. Kami Chisholm, ponder this, both seriously and humorously, as they walk on: “Considering the fact that studies show that twice as many women identify as bisexual than identify as lesbian (yes, bi women outnumber lesbians two to one), the odds were just higher anyway that, if he thinks I'm not straight, then I'm probably bi. So, what could it be that made him assume we were both lesbians?”

What Does a Bisexual Look Like? by Amy Andre, filed at the Bilerico Project, 27.Sep.11.

 

Amy André is also the author of Married, Like as in Married Married for LGBT | POV.

Photo credit: Marlo Gayle

‘We need a bisexual haircut!’ : bi activist Amy André’s bitter-sweet take on walking down the street with her spouse

‘We need a bisexual haircut!’ : bi activist Amy André’s bitter-sweet take on walking down the street with her spouse

 

photo-by-Marlo-GayleAmy André is a bi woman married to a lesbian. When walking together one day, near their home in San Francisco, a man in a pick-up truck shouted at them as he drove by: “Lesbians!”

“I’ll take it!” was André‘s reply. “Because even though I'm not a lesbian, it's certainly no insult to be mistaken for one, especially if the mistake is based on my awesome hair style!”

André is the co-author of Bisexual Health, published by the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force, and is an in-demand speaker on bisexual and overall LGBT issues. She holds a masters in Sexuality Studies and an MBA from UC Berkeley.

And she has short hair. Was that the marker then for this truck driver? Short hair marks a woman as lesbian? André and her spouse, Dr. Kami Chisholm, ponder this, both seriously and humorously, as they walk on: “Considering the fact that studies show that twice as many women identify as bisexual than identify as lesbian (yes, bi women outnumber lesbians two to one), the odds were just higher anyway that, if he thinks I'm not straight, then I'm probably bi. So, what could it be that made him assume we were both lesbians?”

What Does a Bisexual Look Like? by Amy Andre, filed at the Bilerico Project, 27.Sep.11.

 

Amy André is also the author of Married, Like as in Married Married for LGBT | POV.

Photo credit: Marlo Gayle