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BiCon session idea

Have proposed to run at BiCon:Having been bi for longer than five years: a conversationSome of us have thought of ourselves as bisexual for a while now. This will be a chance for us to talk together about how being bi has been in our lives and how it i...

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Men too

TW: Rape, Sexual Assault, Sexual Harassment, blackmail, childhood trauma, sexualisation of children, relationships and sex, abuse. I struggled to title this in a way that wasn’t completely misleading and not intrusive to certain movements. It is...

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The centre of the universe

CW: menz TW: genitalia, discourse perpetuating rape culture That’s how cismen see themselves. The centre of each and every conversation, the biggest voice and the most vicious bark. The centre of the entire fucking universe. Can you imagine, toxic masc...

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Let’s talk about sex baby

CW: Friendships, family, gender, relationships, mental health TW: addictions, abuse, men, masculinity, toxic-masculinity, suicide …let’s talk about you and me. Let’s talk about all the things… I kid. Let’s talk about men. And when I say men, I mean let...

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Bi Activism: For Those Who Like Reading

Often we want to do more to increase our quality of life and promote inclusion but we don’t know what to do. Hopefully this page will give you some ideas to get you started. If your activism isn’t inclusive of BAME bis, disabled bis, trans bis, older bis, younger bis, bis who practice a religion, … Continue reading Bi Activism: For Those Who Like Reading →

Bi Activism

Intro to Bi Activism

Often we want to do more to increase our quality of life and promote inclusion but we don’t know what to do. Hopefully the posts listed below will give you some ideas to get you started. If your activism isn’t inclusive of BAME bis, disabled bis, trans bis, older bis, younger bis, bis who practice … Continue reading Intro to Bi Activism →

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Why the gaydar doesn’t exist

If you’re straight, you probably think that you have some kind of gaydar, right? That somehow, you’ve been bestowed with this wonderous skill of detecting whether someone is or isn’t cishet. I’m here to disappoint, you don’t. It’s not a thing. Here’s w...

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The skin I live in

CW: Mental Health, Mental Illness, Eating Disorders, Mental/Emotional Abuse, Childhood Trauma, Toxic Masculinity TW: Weight, Body Image, Body Dysmorphia, Mental Abuse, Abusive Slurs and Cusses, Familial Issues and Parental Problems. No, I’m not writing...

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Bi Erasure at the Beeb

Sadly little surprise that the BBC politics team is erasing bisexuality again. It's over a decade since they were taken to task over reporting about another prominent left-wing bisexual MP, Simon Hughes, as John Pienaar declared that someone who had ta...

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Me, Mental Health and the NHS.

CW: Mental Health, Mental Illnesses, Bipolar Affective Disorder, Anxiety, Stress, Suicide TW: Suicide, anxiety, panic attacks, NHS, mental illnesses, stress, trauma, self-harm, eating disorders, emotional/mental/sexual abuse. Whenever I attempt to be o...