2015 saw the 6th year of Big Bi Fun Day.  A suny day in…
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2015 saw the 6th year of Big Bi Fun Day.  A suny day in…











2015 saw the 6th year of Big Bi Fun Day.  A suny day in Leicester saw over thirty people enjoying this relaxed, family-friendly event.  There was picnics on the grass, games to enjoy and even some free jewellery in the quiet room!

Hannah has taken over the running of this annual event, as Sanji, the original organiser has moved out of the area.  I am really happy that this great day will continue.  So next year, why not come along to Big Bi Fun Day?  It really does live up to its name!

How to know for sure that you are bisexual
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How to know for sure that you are bisexual

At some point in their lives, most bisexual people will have asked themselves, ‘Am I really bisexual?’. You might be asking yourself this question right now. Often the implication of the question is ‘Am I a ‘true’ bisexual?’, as if there’s a gold standard or generic way of being bisexual. For some, being a ‘true’ […]
Why it’s hard to be bisexual and happy
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Why it’s hard to be bisexual and happy

Bisexual people face multiple barriers to living happy lives. We suffer discrimination from both the straight and gay communities in the form of stigma and negative attitudes.  Myths and stereotypes about bisexuals are widespread – we don’t exist; we’re promiscuous; we can’t be monogamous; we need to have simultaneous relationships with men and women; we […]
Raising the Flag at Notts County Hall
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Raising the Flag at Notts County Hall

Yesterday morning I attended the first event held this week in Nottinghamshire for IDAHoBiT 2015. Representatives from the council, police, emergency services, unions, colleges, universities, and local LGBT groups and organisations made their way to Notts County Hall to watch the rainbow flag being raised by the river. It was wonderful to see so many in attendance and … Continue reading Raising the Flag at Notts County Hall →
Something Simple I Learnt From Stonewall’s Bi Consulations
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Something Simple I Learnt From Stonewall’s Bi Consulations

Since I attended the Bi Consultations held by Stonewall in February 2015 I’ve wanted to do a write up of my thoughts and feelings on how the event went. I deliberately waited a few weeks for the adrenaline, excitement, and euphoria to wear off so I could write something more balanced. However by that point … Continue reading Something Simple I Learnt From Stonewall’s Bi Consulations →
There are no funded bisexual groups in the UK.  There are also…

There are no funded bisexual groups in the UK.  There are also…



There are no funded bisexual groups in the UK.  There are also no LGBT organisations in the UK that has a paid staff member that works solely with Bisexual people.  This is a pretty shameful state of affairs, and once again it leads to the B in LGBT being silent.

I have been delivering short talks and presentations on bisexuality and People of Colour for almost 5 years now.  Most of the time I don’t get paid for doing any of it. In fact, if I get my train fare refunded, I’m happy!

I lost my job in 2014 after having a breakdown.  Things that seemed affordable are now often beyond my reach.  So I’m asking all you good people for some money.  See that Donate button below?  Well you can use it to donate as little or as much as you like.  Your money will help me to continue to give talks, travel and have an easier time being a bisexual activist.

Thank you!
There are no funded bisexual groups in the UK.  There are also…

There are no funded bisexual groups in the UK.  There are also…



There are no funded bisexual groups in the UK.  There are also no LGBT organisations in the UK that has a paid staff member that works solely with Bisexual people.  This is a pretty shameful state of affairs, and once again it leads to the B in LGBT being silent.

I have been delivering short talks and presentations on bisexuality and People of Colour for almost 5 years now.  Most of the time I don’t get paid for doing any of it. In fact, if I get my train fare refunded, I’m happy!

I lost my job in 2014 after having a breakdown.  Things that seemed affordable are now often beyond my reach.  So I’m asking all you good people for some money.  See that Donate button below?  Well you can use it to donate as little or as much as you like.  Your money will help me to continue to give talks, travel and have an easier time being a bisexual activist.

Thank you!
I have a range of zines available on Etsy….
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I have a range of zines available on Etsy….



I have a range of zines available on Etsy. https://www.etsy.com/uk/shop/ApplestoZines?ref=hdr_shop_menu

Subjects include 

Gender questioning,

Vegan and Gluten free cooking (with TWO vegan erotic stories included)

Body Image, fatness and blackness

Surviving Child Abuse

Polyamory Love poems

Ageing as a bisexual person.


All of these zines are at a low price.  I can post out all over the world!